Understanding the Facts of Premature Ejaculation
The inability to last long enough in bed for men has always been an issue.
This condition is called premature ejaculation (PE).
If you suffer from this problem, don't fret - you are not alone! Up to 40% of men are estimated to have PE at some point during their lifetime.
In most of cases there is nothing physically wrong with the sufferers' body, although premature ejaculation itself may bring about problems in a relationship. Sufferers must work to not be ashamed as this only further worsens the condition. The inability to last for extended periods of time during sexual intercourse is not a disease, and you CAN improve. Think of lasting in bed as being similar to any other ability which can be improved, for instance: how to improve will power at work, how to last longer in marathon or any kind of sports. And sex is actually considered to be a sport by some.
Premature Ejaculation Definition
Many people tend to define Premature Ejaculation by numerical measurements, for instance: how many hours the man has active sexual intercourse, the number of strokes, etc.
Actually PE is a relative definition; you do NOT suffer from premature ejaculation if you are with a woman who happens to orgasm very quickly (before you ejaculate). Conversely, you may have sex with a woman who takes much longer to reach her orgasm than it takes for you to ejaculate. So when it comes to definitions, it's very subjective. Many define PE as consistently not being able to sexually satisfy your partner.
So really it all comes down to how long your lady needs to reach her orgasm. It's important to remember every woman will take a different amount of time be sexually satisfied; some women may achieve orgasm in a matter of minutes, while others may take up to 30 minutes or more.
Some women even find it impossible to have an orgasm from penetrative sex no matter how long you last, and thus they require an alternative means of stimulation to reach orgasm. Because of this, you might have "premature ejaculation" with some women while you don't with others, therefore, the definition of premature ejaculation is all based on the perception and circumstances in which you are encountered.
Based on a study, women take 4-16 minutes on average to reach orgasm through penetrative sex. So, if you base your determination of whether or not you suffer from premature ejaculation on numerical values, 4-16 minutes would be a fair choice to go by.
Developing the Mindset to Last Longer In Bed
As mentioned above, the inability to last long periods of time in bed for men is defined as premature ejaculation.
This ability can absolutely be improved or enhanced if you know how what to concentrate on (and also boost your stamina levels in general).
However, you must have the right mindset for successful improvement in your ability to last longer in bed:
You have to be confident you can last.You have to understand how your body system works from the first moment of stimulation all the way up until ejaculation. Take this analogy: how can you repair your car if you don't understand how it works?You have to understand how your own body responds physically, mentally and emotionally when exposed to sexual stimulation.After understanding all of this, then you can learn how to better control your body.Begin regularly practicing simple sexual exercises (such as PC muscle workout routines) as well as general forms of exercise to keep your body fit.There are some healthy foods you can take in order to help you last longer in bed; do further research to learn more.Be patient and consistent when implementing the above practices and exercises.
By acquiring the above mindsets (and having a firm will), you are well on the road to lasting longer in bed!
Daniel Kraska suffered from very bad premature ejaculation in the past. But now he has solved that problem permanently; he now works in a small Christian community, in sex/marriage counseling group - giving help to friends, husbands and wives in overcoming their premature ejaculation problems as well as in developing mindset to last longer in bed.
Visit his site How to Last Longer in Bed Articles for more information. Providing quality mens health and fitness and wellness reviews online.
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